Two weeks ago I was at a conference in Nairobi, Kenya. There were over 300 people there for the African Forum on Religion and Government. Now you may be wondering what in the world I was doing there. I suspect that some people at the conference wondered that as well. I was invited because the person who was responsible for putting on the conference actually worships at Northland’s Oviedo Campus. Since I am Northland’s Partner Coordinator for our work in South Africa I received an invitation.
Delegates were there from 32 different African nations. They included a President, a Vice President, a Minister of Foreign Affairs, a Justice Minister, a Minister of Information, and a host of other political and religious leaders from across the continent. There were also several folks from the United States, most of whom were helping with logistics for the conference. You can also pretty well guess that there were not many white faces around. In fact I think I was one of maybe a half dozen white people in the conference. And that might be an overestimate.
For three days I was keenly aware of being in a minority. I felt as if no matter what I did, I stood out and was visible. If anyone was looking for me, all they needed to say to anyone else was, “he is the white guy about six feet tall with broad shoulders”. That would have been enough to set me apart from the few other white people. When I first entered the conference I took a seat near the back. Our host then made sure that I was moved to the second row along with some dignitaries and special guests. I felt like you could have put a neon sign on me and I would not have stood out any more. Now granted some of my sense of sticking out can be attributed to the human propensity for thinking that things are about us far more than they really are. But without a doubt, as such an obvious minority, anything I did was made more visible than if I was one more of the 300 black delegates.
During the entire conference I was acutely aware of my color. And even though I was in the midst of some of the most loving and gracious followers of Jesus that I have ever met, I wanted to make sure that I was not, “that guy”. You know, “that guy” who reinforces all the negative stereotypes. I wanted to be sure that I didn’t do or say anything that could be misconstrued, be offensive or just flat out make me and all white people look like idiots. When you are a minority I think it has to impact your behavior. We know that when people are in the majority it definitely impacts their behavior, usually for the worse. Just think of a mob that is out of control.
For a long time, we followers of Jesus in the western hemisphere were able to live like the majority. There were simply more Christians than anyone else and the culture was also “Christianized”. In that position we had the opportunity to be gracious and kind to the non-Christian minority. We had the ability to love them as Jesus called us to. Or we had the ability to bully them, or ridicule them, or simply ostracize them. Sadly we usually did the later and the non-Christian minority learned to fly under the radar and avoid our judgmentalism and damnation of them and their behavior. But over time that kind of behavior on our part caused us to go from being the majority to the minority in just a few generations. The culture barely has any remaining vestiges of Christendom and people pretty much do whatever is right in their own eyes, to the point of flaunting sin and now calling it virtue. Tragically many Christians have been compelled to be even more judgmental and cry out even harsher sentences on the unbelievers. In other cases Christians have gone mute, saying nothing that would draw attention and living no differently from the culture. We do this in order to avoid conflict and ridicule and stay safe.
There was a time in our past when being the minority was the lot of every follower of Jesus. For the for the first few centuries we were the minority. But instead of heaping judgment or hiding our light under a basket, our ancestors in the faith learned to be careful about everything they did or said, not to be safe, but to point to Jesus. They understood that their every action spoke volumes. None of them wanted to be “that guy” who brought disgrace to the name of Jesus by behaving in the wrong way. They understood that they were the salt of the earth and if they lost their saltiness, then what good where they to the Lord or the world? They knew that people were watching and so every move they made needed to bring glory to Jesus and show love and grace to others.
One of my sons is regularly involved in a sports ministry that reaches out to Muslim teenagers. He told me one day, “Dad, I don’t ever need to say anything about my faith. They all know that I follow Jesus because I am not a Muslim, and so they watch everything I do to see what it means to be a Christian”. When you are a minority that is the way it is. If you are a follower of Jesus, do you know you are a minority? Even if you live in the Bible belt of America if you are following Jesus you are in the minority. The problem is, many of us are living like we are still a super-majority and we are oblivious to what our actions say to people around us. Some of us who realize that we are a minority are freaked out by that and have become shrill voices of accusation against the world. That is not what Jesus wants. Rather, I think He wants us to remember that being the minority is an incredible opportunity to demonstrate the love, grace, mercy, determination, integrity, winsomeness, and I will say it again, the love that Jesus calls us to.
Trust me, there are some people around you who know you are a Christian. They are watching you to see if it is real. They are watching you because you are a minority, you are different, you are unusual. On top of that, the hope against hope that what you have is real and might work for them. You may not know who they are but they are there. And if you live a life of grace, peace, forgiveness, contentment, self-sacrifice, and love, they will be drawn to you and will want to know the Jesus who your life glorifies.
4 thoughts on “Learning to Live as a Minority”
Great insights, Dan!
Your paragraph on the cause of the cultural shift from Christianity gave me pause for a lot of thought. The driver for this shift has escaped me for many years. I have generally attributed it to a decline in values caused by a continuing drift toward narcissism, fueled by man’s rebellion which dates all the way back to Adam & Eve.
When I think back toward my own rebellion against Christianity was I came of age, I realize that the judgmental attitudes around me were a large factor. I also, however, had a scientific interest and bent which caused me to question the mysteries. The ideas of the ’60s generation also captured me. I grew up in the deep south, and the “Christians” around me were wholly racist. My rejection of racism was a large part of my rejection of Christianity.
As I grew into some measure of wisdom and traveled around the world, I began to see that racial discrimination was not inherent in Christianity. Living in New England for the past 22 years also changed my perceptions.
In short, you opened my mind to a lot in your comments here. I am still not settled that the un-Christian attitudes of the Christian Majority were the prime mover in this cultural change you are addressing, but I am certain that they were a keystone. You have given me a lot to think about for some time to come.
Thank you for these incisive thoughts. You and your writings are a blessing that shine a ray of hope on the bleak picture I have had on the fate of mankind. May love, grace, and mercy follow you wherever you take your message!
Dan. Very nice reflection on being a minority. Thanks.
Your words are so powerful in so many ways. I fully relate and I am so happy you experienced the feeling that I felt when I first started to volunteer and worship in Eatonville. In my life, my sin has pierced the body of Christ. Having been washed in the blood now, I truly appreciate the blessing, privalege and responsiblity of being a minority for the Master. Thank you for sharing your insightful thoughts…
this is a great article, Dan, and reminds me of a couple of native american men that my husband and i have friended via FB. one of them was participating in a Christian blog with my husband and they both have quit making comments because of the nasty, racist remarks being made by those participating against our new friend and ultimately my husband. i am not really knowledgeable about all that the indians went through when the Europeans came over to christianize them but it was pretty ugly, according to our new Christian friends. because they don’t necessarily worship God in the same manner “we” do, they are still ostracized today. it makes me weep to think that those that think they are following scripture really are not. rather than being like your son, they are not showing the love of Jesus to those who worship differently. I like the last line. by doing that, we shall fulfill the great commission. :)+