Sitting talking to my friend Brian about Simple Church/House Church theory and why a mega-church like Northland is getting involved in helping start Simple Churches. Suddenly Brian says to me, “A good Simple Church is like the unicorn. I have heard that there is such a thing and it sounds cool, but I have never seen one. Have you?” “Yes Brian” I replied, “I have seen the Unicorn and it is a beautiful site”. His face lit up in anticipation of hearing about this mythical church creature.
My most recent sighting of the Unicorn came a few months ago in Orange County California. Don’t let the fact that this was in LA throw you off. There are actually some really great things happening in the Christian community there. On this particular Sunday morning I was in the home of my friends Ken and Ali Eastburn. It was time for the church to gather at their house. What I experienced was first century Christianity in a 21st century living room.
At the Eastburns, like most simple churches, the gathered church means there is a meal that includes communion. Since it was Sunday morning that meant breakfast. I got to cook which was fine with me since I love to cook. Pretty soon people began arriving until we had more 14 adults, including a woman visiting from China, and 7 or 8 kids. At one point Ali was greeting folks at the door when she saw her neighbor across the street working in her yard. Ali has been trying to build a relationship with this woman for months and took the opportunity to go speak with her.
Breakfast was ready so Ken prayed to give thanks to God and people began to dig in, finding places to sit around the family room and at the breakfast bar. As the meal was winding down Ken picked up a loaf of bread and a cup of wine. He reminded us of what Jesus did for us on the cross. God was thanked. The Bread was broken. The cup was given. We had a meal and communion just like the church of the New Testament. Someone pulled out a guitar and along with the kids we sang and prayed and honored the Lord.
After we finished singing and praying, the kids went and did a little Bible study with some handouts that they colored then went outside and played. Ken led the adults in a study of God’s Word. Maybe I should say that Ken got us started. He raised a question about something he had read recently and before I knew it we were off. People were digging into their Bibles, flipping pages back and forth, talking about things God was teaching them, verses they read that week that made an impact, asking questions about things they did not understand. There was no “answer man”. I fought the temptation for be that guy because no one want to be “that guy”. It was thrilling to see people seek God’s truth and share what God was doing. It seemed very much like what Paul had in mind when he wrote Colossians chapter 3 verses 14-16.
14And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. 15And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. 16Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
The whole time this was going on, Ali was still across the street talking to the neighbor and Ming, the woman visiting from China had joined her. As it turned out this neighbor was going through a major crisis in life and Ali was encouraging her and letting her know how much Jesus loved her. They prayed with her right there in the front yard. We knew what was going on and prayed for them and the ministry taking place outside. eventually Ali and Ming returned and shared with us what God was doing across the street.
We spent some more time in prayer and getting to know Ming and what the Lord was doing in among the brothers and sisters in China. After a total of about two hours from the start of the gathering, people began to take their leave and head home. I found myself inspired by the simplicity of this whole thing and the way that God made Himself known. It was also incredible to see everyone involved and engaged. It was much like the experience I had early in my Christian life when I was part of a fellowship of about 60 to 80 people who met as a group on Sunday nights but in several House Churches during the week. It was much like what I picture the first century church was like when they met from house to house.
Yes Brian. The unicorn is real and it is a beautiful creature in God’s garden.
What a beautiful experience. You fill in the blanks so well that there is reaaly nothing left for us to say except “Amen.” I’ll add, though, afew thoughts about the unicorns I see frequently darting in and out between the words and pages of FaceBook, running beside the sharings of hopes or prayers about God’s purpose in our lives and his ultimate love. You can hear faint hoofbeats inside the running conversations of so many heartbeats, verbally and spiritually connected inside each others lives, joining into a family that shares pain, laughter, support — and most of all the joy and experience inside a closey woven tapestry of Christian fellowship — flahes of white dart in and out of the ‘shares’ and through the prayers flashes of unicorns dance with the heartwords, uplifting our days. Thank you, Dan. Your post helped me put a name to the passages of beauty I am graced to see everyday. I am so glad you see unicorns. :)+
Dierdre, you have such a way with the pen (or should I say keyboard!). If we have our eyes open there are so many opportunities that God gives us to witness to others about His love for all of us. I guess, really, every opportunity is a God-given opportunity……..we just need to reach out and grab them. Our God isn’t asking us to have a religion that puts His Son on a pedestal but rather to have a relationship with His Son that gives us life. Thank you, Father, and let us not miss those opportunities! :)+
I pastor a house church and it’s great. Some days I wish and hope that God would stroke my ego and give me a big church. But then I think about what it would entail to pastor a big church, and I’m just thankful for where I’m at.
Household Churches like these are really amazing. Simple yet glorious.
I have a question that is probably frequently asked of house churches – how do you make sure what is being shared from God’s word about “what God is teaching me” by each person is in fact truthful? What is the role of the house church pastor?
Curious…